A fling with a young man brought Stella back to the joys of life.3) To Escape the Ticking Bio Clock Younger women in their 30's are often worried about their biological clocks ticking away and with good reason.Then there was Ashton Kutcher who stepped out with a 23-year-old, leading Demi Moore into a whippet-induced 911 scandal. “In the hundreds of cases I've researched, the couples I know and with whom I've worked, there is love and fidelity,” she says.Besides, these younger men usually have little reason to stray.Why is it still such a sensational topic and what are the perks (and pitfalls) of entering into partnership where age knows no bounds?famously proclaimed 2009 as the year of the cougar.There are countless reasons why a younger man might date an older woman, but here's a list of seven that are the most probable from this dating coach's perspective.1) For Lust Maybe you're just hot and he wants you. After all, nature has played a mean trick on humans with women reaching their sexual peak later in life and men reaching it earlier. Not only that, but if a younger man finds you attractive, whether or not you go for it, his attention is flattering.
But I think it hits a very good point - Age is "not just a number" for everybody when it comes to relationships. While I guess it's always good for couples to have some experience in common, in a lot of ways, we Boomers truly came of age in a very different world than many young people, I believe.Meanwhile, the younger man is still in a stage of robust sexuality and more apt to explore his desires with a currently open and willing partner.These two factors create a powerful chemistry between the two." Watch Your Insecurities.With an older woman, he can actually skirt the whole family thing and just enjoy. And so, just like younger women who date older men, younger men are looking for the flip side of the traditional equation.And let's face it, many of these "cougar-types" are looking for what older men have known for years.